Discrimination of Obese People

Obese people are often discriminated because they look different from the usual people that you see around.

Obesity has always been a problem among all ages because of discrimination among people.  People often look at obese people with scorn and indifference.  This makes obese people greatly affected.  Obesity is one of the causes of lack of confidence especially among the younger people when their peers always look at them as unsightly and not sexy.  This is because they are still too young to understand that obesity has its natural causes and not all obese people eat too much and are too lazy to exercise.

If a person is always looked down by people around him, the tendency is for the person’s confidence to be affected.  Many obese people lack self confidence because of the way people look at them and the opinions other people throw to them.  Although obesity should not be something to be ashamed of, many people fear being obese because they fear being rejected by other people.   They begin to develop lack of self confidence until such time that they prefer to be alone because they want nobody ever telling them what to do to reduce or they fear the ridicule that they receive from their peers.

Obese people choose their friends carefully because they are afraid of rejection.  Sometimes they choose people who are shy and who do not talk too much because they are afraid of bad remarks.  When the person is young; obesity becomes a hindrance to his growing up years when all his friends are enjoying their time freely with their peers while he is thinking of how he could also become like his peers.

The usual reaction of obese people when invited to a party is to hesitate because they are thinking if they could wear something that will make them look good like their peers.  If there is one thing missing in most obese people, it is self-confidence.  This is because they have heard enough and they were hurt enough and they couldn’t afford to hear more bad remarks from people around them.

In this world where most people are too aware of physical appearance, obesity becomes something to fear especially when people are young.  The fear becomes a factor that hinders the positive views of the obese person.  This affects his views in life.  He will always look at himself as someone who is odd in a group.  Often times, obese people sit in a corner while the others are enjoying their time.

Obesity should not be something to be ashamed or feared.  If the person will be positive about being an obese, there is no reason for one to be affected.  Sometimes it is the reaction and opinions of the people around that makes obese people affected with the way they look.  Obesity does not have to be that difficult to handle, it is not how one looks that is the most important; there are more important things to consider in a person other than physical appearance.

Written by Lisa Gayagay
Teacher, writer and blogger.

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  1. This really is a wonderful article. Thank you for taking the time to describe this all out for all of us. It’s a great help!

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